ok - I know this is really late, but maybe it will help for next time. I'm from Biloxi, Ms. - near New Orleans, so we know sumpin sumpin bout beans.

I always soak my beans overnight. Then throw out the water.
I saute a couple of onions in butter and olive oil. I then add cut up sausage. I buy the beef Hillshire Farm big link - the regular not spicy (I'm a wimp).
Add some flour (normally the same ratio as to amt of oil/butter used) - this is making a roux
I use water with chicken boullion cubes soaked - stir it together.
The roux will kind of clump together. Add a little of the water mixture. It will thicken. Add some more - again it will thicken.
I'm not sure how much I add all together, but it will completely cover all your beans and the ham bone.
I add garlic, onion powder, basil, salt, pepper, and a little sugar.
I cook this for about 3 to 5 hours. This all depends on the stove and the bean. Black-eyed-peas cook quicker than red beans.
I like to cook mine slowly.
btw - Whenever I have a ham bone left over, I wrap it in seran wrap and put it in the freezer. I put it right into the bean pot while it's frozen. After several hours, I take it out and cut all the meat off the bone, and return the meat to the beans. Discard bone.
I hope this made sense. It's really not that hard. If you don't want to soak them overnight - bring the beans to a boil and strain them. You don't want all that murky stuff. Plus soaking overnight kind of softens them a little.